If you have been wondering what your experience would be like at Tri-State then please continue to read.
I John Holt Personal/Professional matchmaker since 1992 believes in pointing you in the direction of realism. This makes Tri-state unique to other services that sell you dreams.Many of these dreams can't come true and you will end up frustrated.Realistic matchmaking is unique and I promise you that if you are open to it you will succeed.Why will you succeed because through self awareness comes reality.Learning about yourself from my advice will be beneficial.If I can get you to understand who you can be with you will succeed at meeting those people.
The value of my service is price and professional expertise.I charge very reasonable prices, just call me at 800-252-6210 to find out.My reputation is based on acurate matching not just any matching.Patience is a virtue when working with a matchmaker.If you are desperate or full of dating anxiety about getting the next date in less than 24 hours then you should be willing to meet anyone and everyone! At tri-state there are many people to meet.I have men and woman from all walks of life, they are all nice people.I enjoy facilitating personal fullfillment leading to long lasting relationships.
If you want to understand what a matchmaker is, here are some pieces of information.
1 A matchmaker is intuitive. Matchmakers understand things based on hunches and intuition that make sense to try.
2 A matchmaker is an advisor for your own well being, advice given brings realistic perspective. If you are looking for a yes man then you may look elsewhere, because I understand the world of singles.
3 A matchmaker understands the psychological aspects of dating and relationships, especially if you have come from difficult relationships.I am very understanding about past events.I learn from them to help you with the future as we work together.
4 Working together, at Tri-State, you approve of who you meet and will not meet.It never counts as a match, dinner party , speed dating event until you actually meet someone or attend the event.Afterall you must feel comfortable with who you are presented with.Please understand I might try to change your mind on someone if I think your on the wrong track.
5 A matchmaker is a good listener and can asess a persons feelings and requests.
6 A matchmaker isn't always your best friend, even though I like talking to people I will let you know when you are not heading in the right direction. I only want to help you.
7 A matchmaker cares only about the outcome which is to find you a special person for friendship, activity companions, aquaintences, dating partners, long term meaningful relationships and marriage.
The networking singles radio show broadcasted by me each week is designed to educate the general public of all issues pertaining to being single and in relationships. It is for the greater educated value that I entertain you while helping you discover your single world around you.
The principal values of Tri-state are.
1 Self awareness
2commitment to finding you someone not just anyone.
3 Authenticity
4 Honesty You get the truth about the dating world here.
5 Inspiration I will motivate you to succeed.
6 Integrity
7 Truth
8 Vision Looking forward into creating your future.
9 Realism It serves no purpose for anything else less than realism.
The reality based approach has it's place for those who truly want to embrace success, if you don't understand realistically who you can be with you will fail and I am about success not failure.
If you choose tri-state you will be participating in individual compatible matching, social dinner parties in small groups., speed dating in small groups or having me search for people to match with you from the general public.
Who do I serve men and woman from 18-85 in C.T M.A R.I N.Y AND V.T
What seperates my service from the competition is honest to goodness realistic matchmaking at a reasonable price.
Remember at tri-state you are an individual that is important.I will do what I think is best for you.If you are ready for a meaningful, careful, realistic experience , please fill out the form below.