If you had a wish what would you wish for?  I think many single people lament too much about their plight to finding the right person.  In the greatest charming moment in life what would be a valentine wish for you?   Would it be inspiration?  What could I say to inspire you?  I think wisdom is a good thing to wish for in dating.  I think that those that exhibit wisdom make the right choices.  Maybe you could draw from the many quotes famous people made in order to inspire you. 

What about humor?  Could you wish to have more humor in life?  Maybe finding humor in single life will give you a different perspective.  What if all single people just created a fun humorous way to spend Valentines Day?  Giving humorous cards to each other, perhaps at a party where singles would gather.  Instead of handing out personal information to people at this event you hand out cards that are humorous. 

Maybe the Valentine wish you have is to leave being single behind you.  I am here to tell you that being single, is just fine.  Until you meet someone celebrate being you on Valentines Day. 

Maybe a Valentine wish could be to end fear of commitment.  It could be time to end the holdout.  A Valentine wish could be a prosperous relationship that can keep you healthy and happy.

Think of this, hiring a Matchmaker around Valentines Day will lend some help to making your wishes come true.  I have success stories at Tri-State Dating Service of people who joined on or close to Valentines Day.  This time of year, for many, is a time of wishful thinking.  At last many single people will find the courage to change course and succeed at love.  When you think of love everyday is Valentines Day.  A good wish is being a proud person, no matter what your marital status.  If you are single there are options.  Timing is everything.   Valentines Day is an opportunity to make a move toward getting together and begin dating.  There is no stigma in hiring a Matchmaker.  Thousands of people hired me, southern New England’s most realistic Matchmaker.  It takes desire to attain anything.  In dating it takes wishful thinking, timing, patience and the right attitude. 

Valentines Day can be a day for wishful thinking or a day for wishes to come true.  Valentines Day can work in your favor if you just think creatively about how to spend the day. 

Here are my wishes for Valentines Day.

1.       I wish men would become confident about approaching woman instead of fearing rejection.

2.       I wish women would embrace a larger amount of men in dating instead of chasing ideals.

3.       I wish men and women would manage to spend much more time together getting to know each other before moving on.

4.       I wish everyone would decide to conduct themselves in a positive manner with hope.

5.       I wish all of you never let rejection get you down.

6.       I wish all of you find reasons to smile and be happy.

7.       I wish that many more marriages will take place at Tri-State Dating Service this year.

8.       I wish that men and women would choose each other more than reject each other.

9.       I wish that men and women were honest enough to build trust.

10.   I wish that men and women would support each other’s ideas.

11.   I wish men and women would practice generosity toward one another.

12.   I wish that men and women would value each other.

13.   I wish that healthy growth and change would take place in the dating pool.

I hope that whatever your wish for on Valentines Day, that it is positive, and it comes true.

John Holt,

Matchmaker