Encouragement From A Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Wed, Mar 03, 2010 @ 08:19 PM
I thought I would share encouragement with all of you.
1 Start thinking about alternatives to those that reject you, examine a new beggining, maybe it will turn the corner for you.
2 Start showing a bright side to your personality, you might be someones refreshing sunshine.
3 Start participating in group activities that are fun for you, the next person you meet there could be the one for you.
4 Find a subtle way to showcase talents you have.You will get noticed.
5 Look for people with values and charecter, these are the solid people you can count on.
6 If he or she looks good, flirt with them you might strike up a match.Besides it is fun to flirt.
7 Embrace realistic matchmaking, feel my energy, listen to my radio show a networking singles you will gain insight.
8 Don't be shy you have alot to offer, let them know your interesting.
9 Think about nice things you can do for others, you will be noticed as benevolent.
10 Focus on getting positive reactions from the opposite sex.
11 Dress to attract, wear attractive but appropriate clothing.Be stylish.
12 Excercise at least 1 hour daily it will make you more physically appealing.
13 Make eye contact and smile at the moment you make eye contact it works most of the time.
14 Use imagination when planning dates, it creates an element of excitement.
15 Be a conversationalist, you can't be boring if you have something interesting to say.
16 Seek out support from others when dating.
17 Make a committment to have time and energy to date people.
18 Create a perception that you are pleasant to be around, the flock will soon form around you.
19 Make sure you don't percieve your way out of the dating game before you get in it.
20 Try to get as many realtime in person contact instead of tweeting your brains out, playing games on face book or linking in with people who mean nothing to you.Find a way to meet people face to face.
21 Being single does not mean your alone seek out groups of singles and mingle.
22 Don't act desperate, act as if you are worth it to meet, you will meet people this way.Create your inviting presence.
23 Please try to be happy, find your places to go that make you happy and smile, you will attract people there.
24 For heaven sake go on a vacation and meet someone there.
25 Think positive because you will attract positive.
I hope everyday to reach singles with words of encouragement, to lead you by use of the ideas of realistic matchmaking.
John Holt
Matchmaker