Having Dating Difficulties? Try Realistic Matchmaking
Posted by John Holt on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 @ 05:31 PM
My advice to all of you is powerful, so take a collective deep breath and get your head out of the hollywood image cloud! Singles take a look in the mirror and also scan the mirror of your soul. Settling in to ideas that have not worked over and over again will leave you alone over and over again. Looking at potential dates through a narrow lense will drastically reduce your chances to end up with anyone.
Compromising on certain expectations can help you be more reasonable about who you might date a second time. Your not abandoning your ideals completely.Your partial mind filled with junk from your friends, pop culture and bad advice from people can keep you from success. I operate my life that I am just plain no better than anyone else.
Having sheer compassionate ways about you will allow you to reject someone truthfully.However before you think about rejecting someone think about pre judgemental predjudice that has corrupted your mind.Stereotyping is a bad practice, I see it too often.The second chance might turn things around for you.
The people who find someone are active, energetic. open and allow destiny to reach them.If you put the walls up and find the excuses you wont get anywhere.Think about how many negative excuses you make for not changing your path.It's safe to stay home, in dating staying home keeps you alone.
I say to everyone a social network breathes life into your goal of finding someone, go out on more dates and if you dont have dates go socialize with people you can date, find them, seek them out. Get a life. If you dont know where to start, hire me, then let the fun begin. Fun, fun and more fun is the order of the day.Get the conversation started and start meeting people. All the excuses in this world must be thrown in the barrel permanently. If your nervous I will coach you through it.Recently I spoke several times to a new member of mine from Torrington C.T she was nervous about being accepted by the men at the dinner party I set up.I told her of her positive attributes that the men should respond.I built her confidence to go and be counted on.I am sure she will have a good time. Be brave, get out there.
It is the idea that realistic matchmaking is a fast growing idea that supports you in a process. The bravery part is yours to do.I will be your motivator.The production of good matches via my intuition and analysis will be beneficial and we will conquer the dating world and get you into a relationship.I will get you headed in the right direction. Communication will begin flowing like a river and you will be meeting people.
John Holt
Matchmaker