Posted by John Holt on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 @ 10:53 AM
Wow 2010 is almost here Happy New Year to all of you. I want to see all people who want a relationship work hard this upcoming year to attain that goal.I am known for matching people for relationship longevity.
I want you all to make resolutions to protect yourself from bad people while increaseing your chances to meet people who are legitimate prospects.
A real good resolution which I abide by is to listen to people so you can learn from them. You must listen to people to pick up on crucial cues that tell you their reliability.Trust and reliability should be the theme for you in 2010.
Here is your calendar for 2010 if your single.
1 1/1-1/25 is the I was alone for the holidays-new years resolution not to be alone for the holidays period.
2 From 1/26-2/14 is the I want someone for valentines day period.This brings out the romantics.A man from waterford c.t joined on valentines day last year and is now in a 6 month relationship with a woman from seymour c.t Yes the romantic shall thrive!
3 From 3/1-5/15 is springtime romance.Yes the flowers are in bloom and the weather is better and you are thinking it is much better to spend time together than alone.
4 From 5/25-6/30 is I want to establish a summer romance period.The summer is where all the great outside activities take place, don't be alone.
5 July and august is the time to get out and meet people in fun activities and really is the time to start something so you wont be alone for the holidays.
6 Labor day- thanksgiving where you really start worrying about being alone for the holidays.
7 Thanksgiving to new years day where either you continued to try to meet someone or you became foolish and went into hiding.
Obviously taking advantage of the earlier periods makes better sense.I see alot of smart people in january and february of each year that are not alone during period 7 of my singles calendar.I am looking forward to meeting people from C.T, R.I, M.A, N.Y, AND V.T. The quality of your life depends on a great relationship.Resolve yourself to doing something now not later.Because if not now then when? Remember there is no price tag on a quality relationship.
Here are some resolutions to choose from.
1 Empower yourself to resolve to meeting 100 persons of the opposite sex this year you might likely end up with one.
2 Seek advice from professionals on the subject of attaining relationships.
3 Let me your professional matchmaker rescue you from dating your computer mouse.
4 Embrace the opposite sex, dating is not warfare it is not designed to destroy relationships it is there to build them.
My resolution is to spread accross 5 states the brand of tri-state dating service which is realistic matchmaking.Resolve to throw away the fairytale thinking.Rapid growth is in the forefront of tri-state dating service. My service has had alot of growth in 2009 and will continue to find realistic singles who are relationship oriented and are ready for meaningful relationships.My forecast for 2010 is where strategic thinking about realism drives the agenda and produces more relationships.
Happy new year to all of you I hope I meet you in any of those 7 cycles of the singles calendar.
John Holt
Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Sat, Dec 26, 2009 @ 10:17 AM
I bet you feel real safe on the internet, a playground for predators.I researched this subject for a radio show I did back in 2007.I found a site called online personals watch.I was able to download 27 pages of a major argument that all the big websites were having about doing background checks on people.How do you feel about this? Should it become law in your state? What is the merit to you about background checks? Can we legislate morality or what if a convicted felonturned their life around, would you exclude them? According to one ceo of an online dating company " criminals were once non offenders" This man is folish.Should we beware of who hasn't got caught yet? If he is right then their are more people to fear, isn't that what he is eluding to.If that ceo is correct then you must worry about more than the verifyed offender.Why is it that after 18 years of business I never had anyone harmed at this dating service.The ceo from the website doesn't know who is on his website and he thinks that is not important.I meet people in person and even if I sense there is something not right I walk away from them, you can't be too careful.Although there is risk in everything.
The people in the argument on the website online personals watch are a bunch of ceo's from online dating companies arguing with one ceo who wants background checks.Now if those checks get done it will make your monthly fees more expensive.I have found out that many singles use online dating sites for frugal reasons.The monthly fees are cheaper and so is the quality.The quality is cheapened.However there are many who complain about internet dating then they wont pay a professional to get them better matches and then when they finally add up the monthly fees the value is less.So are we propogandizing fear? I think not, I have heard enough on major news networks about the most dangerous criminal activity being perpertrated through online dating sites.I even watch some of the court shows that are on television and see more cases usually involving theft and deceit on these daytime court shows.
Consumers of any dating site or service want accuracy and safety.Woman are now using professional matchmaking services for safety purposes in larger and larger numbers.Many of the woman I signed up this year told me stories of meeting men online that amazed me in the numbers of bad men that are out there.Men quite often come to me from the internet because they are frustrated and were lied to by many woman.Even the online dating industry surveys it's customers to find out what is going on.Misrepresentation is the biggest concern.Why men and woman lie is because they don't feel atractive enough, they fear rejection and instead of doing things to make themselves attractive they continue to lie to each other waste more money and end up with no one.
Realistic matchmaking is the brand of tri-state dating service, embrace reality!This will ensure you meet people you can be with long term.This will help you escape the nightmarish dating merry go round.
So are the major dating website companies less concerned about your safety?Is there only 1 online dating website that is concerned and did they do it because they care or they want an advantage.Whichever it is the consumer will win.I ask all of you do you care about your safety more than your privacy.I also asj you what do you do with someone who offended 18 years ago and is a model citizen today?What about the recovering alchoholic who hasn't had a drink in 18 years.What about the person who has overcome mental illness?
In conclusion I think what I do here at tri-state is safer, makes more sense and you get to talk to me about how you want things.Together we obtain direction.I eliminate scheming individuals from contacting you with elaborately contrived agendas.It is futile for people not to be matched based on anything other than compatibility.The desperate will continue to be desperate and never find anyone soon which is what they want.Because the desperate have no patience.I know everyone in my membership, all but one online dating company chooses not to know.
John Holt
Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Thu, Dec 24, 2009 @ 10:57 AM
For all of those christian singles out here , merry christmas.The celebration of the birth of jesus christ.I embrace christmas for many reasons.Christmas is important to christians and should be respectfully honored by christians.There is nothing wrong with merry christmas and this should not offend anyone as I believe all religions should be honored for their holidays.
Christmas gives us access to celebrate family and friends and because the 3 wisemen brought gifts to the manger, gift giving is as ancient as when christ was born.There is also the story of saint nicholas who I suppose is the origional santa claus. We can surely say what we want about christmas and perhaps it's commercialism.At this point in time if you are single and enjoy christmas then merry christmas to you.The concept is valued and is one of my favorite holidays.I just find people interesting and fun to be around, especially in a festive mood.It is counterproductive for anyone to offend anyone elses religous beliefs.So please enjoy the next 2 days as I will.
John Holt
Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Tue, Dec 22, 2009 @ 12:58 PM
Directly on the front page of this website I have a statement about trust.This aspect of my business is so important.I can certainly understand my personal responsibility to be truthful with all of you.When your dealing with a subject that is so emotionally charged you must, I must face the truth with you.Realistic matchmakings cornerstone is telling the truth, being honest when dating.I must help you face the truth by eliminating any stigma you feel about using a matchmaker.Thousands of you in new england and new york are doing it.You have to be honest about who you are and where in the process you are.
Consumers who are daters must understand that if you expect a business to be honest with you then you must be honest with them, it works both ways.I have talked to people recently who would not be truthful with me and they are not members here because there is no room for anything else but the truth. Facing the truth in a business transaction is important for building a foundation.I will not do business with anyone who doesn't trust me.I expect forthright trustworthiness in the people I come in contact with.The business proposition is trust.What are you asking me to do and what can I do within the framework of the tri-state dating service brand.You must get involved in the truth and practice it daily as an edict of life. Matchmaking is dealing with the world we live in.I don't know where it became ok to lie and lie in dating people.The truth is the only way to go.
The social ramifications in dating are huge when you lie.Quite often people lie to spare the feelings of others when rejecting them.I ask what purpose is served by that.Much worse people lie to each other in dating to get money from you or sexual favors.The problem with the truth is an epidemic in our country.Politicians lie to us daily with the idea you can't throw them out of office, they think your stupid and they are running this country into the ground.When you see business people,politicians and those close to you lie you loose trust.When there is no trust left everything will come to a halt.A big part of the recession is you don't trust business' so you don't spend your money or you don't trust that your job is safe because your employers are not honest with you.Should this problem continue in our country we will be in deep deep trouble.
Todays single person is struggling for an identity.Men are not as confident as they once were.Men are less decisive and this my male friends is unattractive to woman.I have talked to some men up to 6 months and they still can't make up there mind about spending several hundred dollars to meet quality woman.The men that have made a decision are getting matched regularly.There are some woman who are afraid to trust men.This must stop or you can't date someone.
The dating industry has in many ways marketed the services to you in the wrong way, being dishonest about your chances for love.This is why I created realistic matchmaking.You should never respond to the hunky dorie ads you see promising you love.No one can promise you that.I feel here at tri-state dating service that helping you transition from fairytales to reality and putting forward a strategy to help you be realistic so you will succeed.This means we all must face the truth together.The truth shall help you evolve into a person who feels good.We must embrace the psychological makeup of who you are and best match you with who you can be with.Unrealistic expectations are present when you and all those around you promote the idea of placation of your feelings instead of embracing the truth.There are things that many need to know but were spared, so the truth is tossed by the wayside.In all these profiles everyone wants honesty and everyone is honest and the fact is that too many people in this country lie regularly and daily and no one trusts anyone because of it.I have personal strength to help you for real.When helping you for real the truth is all we can face together.Talk to me sometime, you will see this is best for all of us.I can earn your trust and help you escape the fallacy of some.
John Holt
Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Mon, Dec 21, 2009 @ 11:28 AM
Hi singles and happy holidays to you.Many of you often lament about the reasons for not being with someone.If this is happening to you at this time of year it is especially difficult.I often scratch my head in amazement at what price tag some people put on ending the lonliness.
Timing is ever so important in meeting people, sustaining connections with the various methods of finding someone is important as it really depends on being in the right place at the right time.This month at tri-state dating service has been busy, many dinner parties and hundreds of matches were made during december so if you are sitting there wondering if life has stopped in december you were mistaken.Click the link ten reasons to join during the holidays-Here are The Ten Best Reasons to Join Tri-State Da followed by this link which will give you savings.-Holiday Savings are Here no kidding, discounts until midnight 12/31, take advantage as many have.These people who took advantage are here for you to meet.
I can honestly and in a candid fashion point out that your mind speculates on attaining a relationship if your single.Denial of this will not make it go away.I must tell you that realistic matchmaking is what you need to understand not what you fantasize about.
Here are some things your speculating about as I write this.
1 The dangers of online dating.
2 Stigma of using a service to find you someone.
3 The exagerations of online daters to make themselves look better.
4 Exposure to the right people while protecting privacy.
These speculative thoughts are building against the backdrop of what a relationship is worth.I have met many people who try to cheapen this process.Many of you thought $9.95-59.95 a month was better, but then again it piled up on you didn't it, and what did you get for that? I am here to tell you it was cyberspace rental where you did all the work and they collected all the money.So speculation is now benefit vs. harm. If your cautious about where to meet people then have a conversation with me 800-252-6210 about speculating here.Many of you speculated that you would be anonymous online.Did you know that you can be traced through your IP adress based on anything you do online.
Speculation is about the human need to socialize, you can't deny your social can you? It becomes surpresion of needs.The physical presence of others is the end result, so cyberspace is not real physical human contact is it?You must speculate that it is worth it to you to be safe to avoid scam artists, predators who seek to victimize you. Perhaps your addicted to the internet, this happens!Is it worth it to you to get back to reality? Hit my link -10 Tips for Choosing a Matchmaker It will give you insight as to how things work with a matchmaker.Today many in southern rhode island are joining, tommorrow it is new haven and fairfield county c.t who knows where it will be next.
If your speculating becomes proccupied with the holidays are here excuse for not going forward then maybe my 20% discount by midnight new years eve will help you out.If you are feeling restless and irritable about your speculation then it is time to do something about it.
Matchmaking helps you find the right people, the internet sites provide escape from reality, however you should speculate about reality.A relationship will relieve anxiety, helplessness and move you to a new meaning of each day.Each day is growth oriented instead of empty.So what is a relationship worth?You haven't asked yourself yet about what a relationship is worth.
Here are the speculative thoughts you are involved with in your mind.
1 Doing something meaningful with my love life.
2 Relationships give life meaning.
These two are keys to your speculative thought process.Maybe my special offer good only until new years eve is enough for you to move out of speculation. 20% off any dating service package.So what is a relationship worth is it cheapened by internet sites, after all you thought it was cheap untill you added it all up and what do you have to show for it.Speculation hopefully becomes reality.
John Holt
Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Fri, Dec 18, 2009 @ 11:32 AM
Merry christmas.I love saying it over and over again.Happy hanukkah to all my members and friends in the jewish community.Happy kwanza to african americans.Happy holidays to everyone including atheists and agnostics.In other words happy happy, merry holidays for everyone.
A special note to the political corectness movement, lighten up and become happy, merry and joyous, instead of being bah hum bug! I as a matchmaker who get's blessed by meeting alot of people draws my spirit from all I meet.These should be inspirational times and these attacks on christmas by looneys who have an agenda should be dismissed for the nuts they are.Today, yesterday I wrote holiday cards and sent them out.This world needs a transfusion of happiness.Forget these political types they are destructive to the fiber of who we are.They are bloodsuckers taking money from us for their own gain.They care nothing about us.The hate christmas agenda is another tearing down of our institutions.I love christmas and by the way I love the fact that everyone else has a holiday to celebrate.
The true spirit of this time of year is being with people and celebrating.It has religous signifigance for those believers and whether or not I agree with everyone I celebrate everyones belief and defend their right to celebrate it.When you give gifts this year think of the meaning of giving.This practice of giving extends itself to mean you care about each other, as I have said before all us regular people are what matters and this is how we function.You wont be dissapointed if you have spirit this time of year and discover the path to happiness.All the spirit in life can be yours.In the last analysis we can choose to brighten life and be positive not negative, not intolerant.So happy holidays with all my spirit to all of you and bah humbug to the political corectness fools.
john holt
Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Wed, Dec 16, 2009 @ 08:19 PM
This business subject is something I have always known, wait a minute, don't you think walking hand in hand listening to sweet caroline is worth anything?Is love with a price tag on it.I think not.I am in the spreading love all over the northeast business.
Right now consumers at a 75% rate are opting to take me up on my 20% off holiday special.If your not your in the minority.Singles are more optomistic about savings and love at the same time.Those of you sinking into holiday depression need not have to do that and call me 800-252-6210 and join in on the serious fun.I matched alot of people today one week before christmas.It doesn't cost an arm and a leg either.One man from enfield c.t was matched with 3 woman today.Lot's of men and woman here.Consumers are certainly pulling back on discretionary spending, then why has my business increased 30% in 2009? It is my purpose, realistic matchmaking that makes sense, it has good value and the brand realistic matchmaking is attracting you in larger numbers.I appreciate your confidence in me.Realistic matchmaking is a stimulus rescuing you from the fraud of online dating.Internet dating sites can't run from what they are, dens of fraud.
Ambitious goals can be met here.It's an all purpose proposition.Bargain prices equal realistic matchmaking equals positive energy equals the begining of meaningful relationships.See you soon.
John Holt
Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Mon, Dec 14, 2009 @ 06:15 PM
The holiday season fits me like a glove.I enjoy being with family, friends and meeting all the new people that I can match.Many of the people who signed up in the last 3 weeks have already been matched, many of them 3 days after I left them and I have to tell you all of them are quality people.I think making people happy at this holiday time of year is specially designed for my business.The one your looking for is here waiting for you.
The holidays are an expression of love for so many that it is naturally suited for matchmaking.The design is simple, meet me enjoy the interview.I am easy to talk to.I really enjoy working with people who are realistic and upbeat, if your scrooge then I might have to take you on a tour of matchmaking christmas' past.If your not scrooge it will be easier.It's the real you I enjoy and everyone has an enchanting personality if you just show that side of yourself.
Compatibility is the name of the game here so be prepared to answer questions.Meeting people does not have to be put off until you become a new years resolution maker.Dating can be an integrated part of looking at lights and celebrating the various holidays this time of year such as hanukkah, I have had so many jewish members who to be quite honest are wonderful to deal with so during happy hanukkah you could be matched.Matchmaking is in the jewish culture going back centuries.I love christmas it is a favorite of mine.Christmas has many meanings for many people, no matter what is it becomes special to me because anyone who comes forward this time of year is great to meet in person and match as soon as possible.I move fast and stay busy this time of year.
This time of year has many meaningful purposes and matching singles is one that makes me feel good and benefits those who are alone, but soon not to be alone under the mistletoe.My realistic matchmaking brand serves a useful purpose for those wanting the relationship geared toward the needs and desires of each person.
Yes I say happy holidays to all and hopefully I will be the one who starts a relationship for you soon.
John Holt
Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Fri, Dec 11, 2009 @ 10:17 AM
There will be those of you who wish to argue with me as your spending to many hours of your time online trying to contact people to date.Who are these people? Some of them are nice people others are not and worse your chances of meeting bad people are at 40%. The fact of the matter is that online dating doesn't work for 88% of the people who use it.Men please remember this, technology has changed , woman have not. No man should be under any illusion that woman are running right out the door to meet them from online dating sites.Woman are security concious.Most woman are not going anywhere until they feel comfortable with you and feel safe after checking you out.I know that many men are frustrated with typing until their fingers fall off.This is just one reason why your frustrated and online dating doesn't work.The less serious game player in dating these days surfs the online sites looking for people to meet.Most of these people don't have any serious relationship goals in mind. You know everyone said they are honest, straightforward, trustworthy people whose photo always looks like they do in person , right, sorry 40% of the time they are deceptive or fraudelent.
Game playing with your emotions is easy online because these sites were set up as candy stores.The envirnment your in is casino like.It is like pulling the lever on a slot machine.Sometimes by accident you win.So the gambler type is the one who enjoys online dating. 12% of you win 88%of you lose 40% of you meet the following.
1 Seriously psychologically disturbed people.
2 con men and con woman.
3 goldiggers after your money.
4 married people.
5 Abusive people.
6 Sex offenders.
7 sociopaths.
8 People who misrepresent themselves lieing about appearance, age and status.
So if you like the 8 types listed then keep dating your computer mouse.There also dens for players and committment phobics.It can be scary. Authenticity is paramount in feeling good about meeting strangers.Alot of times online you meet crude, inappropriately dressed misfits.I give you this information from all the singles I talk to about this, they came to me because they are tired of dating there computer mouse and being decieved, lied to and ignored.Desperate , whining, maladjusted people make up 40% of those people on dating websites.This sets you up to fail 4 out of 10 times you meet someone or much worse, just ask women who were sexually assaulted or bilked out of there life savings by online predators or wealthy men who were used and taken in nasty divorce settlements from goldiggers that preyed on them. Online dating sites allow you to mask your identity, they dont do background checks or meet you in person to identify you.Just a picture and a short profile.These profiles don't do enough to judge compatibility they allow this to become a gamble.Remember this is just like the casino, just like spinning the roulette wheel.
There are further problems with online dating.A person realizes they are not desireable so they make themselves look desireable.The internet can be fantasy island to the delusional.Many people worry that they are unacceptable, so they lie and embellish delusions of grandeur.It can't be maintained for long if your dealing with all of this, furthermore it becomes exhausting and full of dissatisfaction.All of what I have said here is perpetuated in cyber space.
There are also marrige scams like russian brides and brides from asian countries or eastern europe, desperate woman who will marry you sight unseen until they get here and they divorce you and take you for everything you have, much worse there are some woman who just ask you to send them money to come here and they abscond with the funds wired to them.So guys if Natasha is telling you she loves you in 2 weeks beware.
Let's talk about business issues with online dating sites.Harmony, satisfaction and results are severly lacking here.Customer satisfaction is low.Customers want misrepresentation to be addressed, it isn't being addressed, it is being ignored.They don't want to do the work to find out who is on there site.There is no gate keeper, anyone with a credit card get's admision. By the way do you think that it is inexpensive.Just add up what you pay between $ 9.95- $59.95 per month what do you get, just space rental and you do the work, add it all up and how many good people did you meet for what you paid? Then there is non existent customer service, they don't address complaints.Automatic rebilling of credit cards without your authorization they should be prosecuted for doing that, yet they get away with it and you have to cancel your credit card to get away from them.Then your expectations are dashed on the rocks when you meet the misrepresented or worse.These companies think they know you and are not feedback oriented.There is no one to call to talk to.
These sites serve no functional purpose.It is practical to be able to converse and have your wishes be considered in matchmaking.People are complicated.Online web sites have no real mechanism to deal with the many factors that go into matching.The meetings that take place many times are embarrassing moments.There is no applicable way to compare this to anything other than the wild wild west.The internet is a haven for dysfunctional people and predators.You can't adapt to no solutions offered to you by these sites who take your money and ignore you.What questions ever get answered.How helpful is it.Well this information I give you is from many people that talk to me, research I have done.
John Holt
Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Wed, Dec 09, 2009 @ 09:16 AM
Is this holiday season unbearable for you? This is the worst time of year to be alone.Let's face up to it.This time of the year is loaded with excuses made by many of you as to why your alone.I have been at this matchmaking business since 1992 I know about changing your fortune.I only change it when you embrace realism.I believe that 70% of you will face pressure either self induced or by people close to you to be in a relationship.I only want to talk to you if you really want to end the lonliness or change the destructive unrealistic pattern your in.I also want to rescue you from dating your computer mouse and dealing with unscrupulous people on internet dating sites.
Here are some facts, 6 out of 10 of you agree that it is better to be in a relationship especially this time of year.This is simple if you let it happen.The decision to act upon meeting people is up to you, so I as a catalyst will move you in the right direction, for many of you it is so uncomfortable to be in this spot.While I get you out of this spot you will learn why you were there to begin with.So if mistletoe is hanging and no one to kiss, well once again what are you waiting for?
Christmas for singles is far more meaningful when the very basic need for companionship is fullfilled.This need outweighs any material gift you recieve.I love the fact that singles are joining right now, it gives me license to give them the gift of companionship or the start to a new relationship. Only 1 in 20 of you want material things over substance in a relationship.
Holiday parties are a big reason singles dread the season.It is awkward to attend alone. You feel out of place and uncomfortable in those surroundings, but you don't want to stay home alone do you? Let me fix that.Don't duck, dodge and hide from the invitations.People invited you because they like you.I invite you to join my service because if they like you then someone in my membership will like you and you then don't have to go alone to these parties.
So is the pressure building? You can embrace the pressure and turn it into a positive. Looking for someone this time of year gives you opportunity to find others like you and a special note to the he is too needy or she is too needy crowd, everyone needs someone in a relationship so throw the needy label into the circular file, your not to good to need someones company!
Can I help spread the cheer, you bet.I'm fun to talk to at an appointment and I will build you up and represent you well.I know I will get started some relationships this month, could it be you.
Let's change the sad truth about lonliness for the holidays.Let the catalyst , me take you in the right direction.The pressures of facing this year alone are mounting.The party invitations are coming, you know it.Your not the token single invite, your worth more than that and let me fix it so you show up with someone.Even if your happy single your free to meet someone to make your season merrier.If you feel as though I am hitting the spot hard, this is what I do.My purpose is to bring you together with someone meaningful. There will forever be excuses and valid arguments for being single.Your free as a bird and I guess then why are most of you miserable as your free as a bird, because being alone is not what we were psychologically wired for.If you want to meet upbeat, proactive people you must be proactive.
If your on the hunt let me make your season brighter.Avoid lonliness any further.Meeting like minded people is what it can be about for you.Festive dating is on your horizon.
John Holt
Matchmaker
Posted by John Holt on Fri, Dec 04, 2009 @ 11:24 AM
Happy holidays from your realistic matchmaker.Did you know that this economic hard time many singles actually took stock in relationship building.The portfolios sank, jobs are at risk, spending was reduced to saving for that rainy day.This economy could be described for many of you as a monsoon.I am fortunate that many of you chose relationship building this past year.My business was not affected by this econonmy, so what does this mean to you? If you are someone who wants a relationship then it is time to jump on that bandwagon known as tri-state dating service.The realistic matchmaking bandwagon that I am so passionate about.There are dinner parties galore taking place and hundreds upon hundreds of matches that have been made in the past 90 days.The holidays will not slow this down, unless you use them as an excuse and let's face it if your making excuses then you'll never meet anyone.
Consumer discretionary spending is the guiding factor in making a decision to move forward so just check it out my holiday savings offer-Holiday Savings are Here and you will see this as a merry time of year for both of us.My prices are already inexpensive just call me and find out 800-252-6210. In my service the more the merrier. My service has been beneficial to the realistic since 1992.The negative territory we are in currently does not impact love, friendship, companionship, and long term relationship building. The forecast for the future is bright in the movement I started called realistic matchmaking, it is reasonably priced for the times we are in.I personally love to sit and meet people this time of year or really anytime of year.I feel fortunate to have known and will know thousands upon thousands of single people all interesting in their own right.I am now completing the strongest quarter of the year.This is surprising because the first 5 months of this year business was booming.July and august came in unexpectedly high in enrollment and now october through this month is even stronger than the first 5 months.Why is this happening in a bad economy, because value placed on relationship building coupled with reasonable prices drives and overides the economic storm.We all need each other because corporate america and our government at all levels has exploited us and does not care about us.It is small business and everyday Joe And Susan who we all really care about.My business is rich in personal equity, personal equity is defined by those men and woman who are nice, who patronize my business and are realistic.Love has no price value so the proposition is stronger than your idea not to spend, no one puts a price tag on meaningful relationships.
The members here at tri-state dating service make a strong showing of faith in me, with faith there is hope.Strong growth is a result of this faith.Knowing that prospects are available makes my service a comodity of high intrinsic value.We together will emerge in this realistic matchmaking mission of mine as strong, prgmatic, practical thinkers who can be with people we know we can be with.Fairytale marketing in slick fashion is so transparent, you singles are smart and hopefully will see through it.I am the matchmaker of high sophistication, let's engage in the realistic matchmaking process.I feel that your personal outlook can rebound your psyche during this bad economic period.
There are still many pockets of development on my plate this year.
1 Connecticut is in a 3 year boom, I want to expand that boom.
2 New York is on board.I want to triple my numbers in new york.
3 Central mass. has been consistent from day 1 I want to spread that consistency east and west in massachusetts.
4 I have some of the best woman in recent memory signed up here.I want more of them.
5 My committment to men and woman over 55 years old is strong and I encourage all realistic men and woman past 55 to join.
6 Yonger men and woman from 25-39 are leaving online dating sites for the security of professionalism and safety in meeting the right person.I want more of you
7 Rhode island has made 3 months of significant gains, we must continue to grow in rhode island
8 Building up southern vermont is a priority.
9 There are many fine men here.I want more men .If your a man that wants to meet the right woman there has never been a better time.
So my goals are lofty and I want all of you to embrace the story of realistic matchmaking.Your love life is more valuable than this economy, many of you know a bargain when your offered one.Let's swell this movement, afterall the yield is best when the numbers are larger.The bigger the pool and it is getting bigger the better for matching people.
John Holt
Matchmaker